Once again at this time of year, delicious goodies arrive at the shops to tempt our resolve to be healthy! They are the first of the many high calories, low nutritional, potential indulgences that will tempt our taste buds this holiday season.
It can be overwhelming with all of the parties, buffets, and family gatherings to stay focused on being healthy. The temptation to overindulge in calorie-laden stuff is front and centre. The added busyness of shopping, decorating, hosting, and travelling can heap on stress that may sabotage even the strongest resolve not to indulge. It is easier to just accept what well meaning people offer rather than saying no or choosing a healthy (and really tasty) alternative.
Holiday weight gain is not the five to ten pounds most people believe. According to the National Institutes of Health, most Westerners have an average weight gain of about a pound over the Christmas and New Year’s period. The problem is that the weight is not lost during the remainder of the year. As the extra weight accumulates through the years, it becomes a major factor.
Are you an emotional eater? Feel tired, so grab food for a pick up? Feel out of control, so grab a bite of something sugary for a lift? If you do, you may feel as if you have no control over your eating and feel discouraged that this pattern will ever change. Since food is a basic physical requirement and also a powerful sedative, we often turn to food when stressed. Food provides instant gratification and an easy escape from taking responsibility for one’s choices. Once we get out of touch with what the body needs for basic nutrition and energy, our relationship with our bodies can suffer, and we can put on those unwanted kilos.
Well, I’m here to share this with you. Emotional eating is simply a strategy you’ve taught yourself to self soothe and make yourself feel better. When we eat emotionally, we’re looking for a way to distract ourselves from our problems or our pain. We’re looking for a way to feel better and often choose high sugar foods as a way to numb, calm or relax us.
Of course this is an ineffective coping strategy and the first step in changing it begins when we ask ourselves: “what do I really need?” Rarely is it food. Sometimes it is just a big glass of clear water.
To begin to break the habit, the first step is to learn what you’re looking for. Do you need support, intimacy, sleep, friendship or a better outlet for stress relief?
With emotional eating, you must also give yourself a break. Berating yourself and your behaviour only encourages another binge because this is how you’ve trained yourself to deal with hurt, anger, frustration and pain. Although it may seem like “this is the way it will always be” when it comes to emotional eating, it doesn’t have to be that way at all. With time, patience and some loving self compassion, you can finally end your battle with emotional eating.
Prevent that extra weight from taking hold this holiday season with these tips:
- Don’t hover around buffet tables at parties. Avoid auto-grazing by staying as far from the buffet as possible.
- Watch your portion sizes. Use a smaller plate, and do not go back for seconds. Enjoy the food and be satisfied with one plate.
- Eat your food slowly savouring each mouthful.
- Avoid high-calorie drinks such as eggnog.
- Reach for the healthy, non-starchy carbohydrates such as vegetables and fruits. They are a better choice than crackers and cheese, chicken wings, roasted nuts, and cookies and you will feel better after.
- Get additional exercise. Go for a walk and get some fresh air. Add an extra 10 to 15 minutes to your workouts, do a few extra laps around the mall while shopping. Finally, learn to disconnect emotional issues from eating. Take time to re-establish your connection with your inner nature.
To change your emotional eating habits, relax your body and close your eyes. Think of a situation around eating that has been a problem for you or could be a problem, such as an upcoming family gathering. How would you like to behave in that situation? Imagine new behaviours that can lead you toward your desired goal. See yourself as in control of your eating and see your healthy body. Be proud of yourself.
Food nourishes you and is essential for the maintenance of your health. Increasing your eating awareness helps you naturally select the right foods in the right quantities.
Happy holidays to all
Yvonne